care about the car. The things in life she cares most about are me, our two sons, and faith (well probably in the reverse order). I think she sees it as our kids school tuition flying out the window. Don't get me wrong I would not buy the car back if I could not afford it but from her perspective all she sees a savings account dwindle. I guess you would have to meet her, she is awesome and does not care about posessions like me (sometimes I wish I did not as well). I don't know what I'm going to do but the issue is certainly not dead yet.